Big campaigns are helpful, but small routines are better. Here’s a plain-English checklist families can actually use.
1) What’s changed?
Note new or persistent shifts in: sleep, mood, memory, weight, breathlessness, chest pain, bowel/bladder, falls, skin spots that don’t heal, pain that’s not settling.
2) Book the GP (long appointment if you can)
Bring a current meds list, including over-the-counter and supplements. If it’s been a while, ask what screening is appropriate for his age and history (blood pressure, cholesterol, bowel screening eligibility, diabetes, prostate discussion, vaccinations, skin check).
3) Make adherence boring (that’s good)
One shared calendar for appointments.
Medicine timing written where it’s used (not buried in a drawer).
A quiet check-back later in the week: did anything change after the visit?
4) If mental health is the topic
Use simple prompts: “How’s your sleep?” “What’s felt heavy this month?” “Would chat, a plan, or time outside help most today?” Listen first. Agree one next step.
How support at home helps
Logistics (transport, reminders) so screening actually happens.
Consistency — routine checks built into visits.
Privacy and consent — clear, simple information-sharing with family and the GP.
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